tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28811203384078815192024-03-13T13:19:47.387-07:00FletchspeakJust some thoughts as life comes up with its sweet little challenges and magical moments. I would really appreciate your feed forward. This is one old dog who is prepared to learn new tricks!Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-14130237164235398232012-05-26T19:12:00.000-07:002012-05-26T20:05:17.621-07:00New Adventure<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<b>We are off on an adventure!</b><br />
Les & I will be heading to Tunisia in a few weeks time. We will be living in La Marsa, Tunis. We have new teaching positions at the <a href="http://www.acst.net/">International American Cooperative School in Tunis.</a><br />
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Les will be the Principal of the Elementary School and I will be teaching PE & Music - yep a job made in heaven for me.<br />
If you want to know more about Tunisia then access this <a href="http://www.cometotunisia.co.uk/home">cool site</a> and it tells all.<br />
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Also the update political and social happenings can be gained from this site <a href="http://www.tunisia-live.net/">Tunisia Live </a><br />
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It is my intention to update this blog as frequently as I am able to so family, friends and those who wish to know can keep abreast of what we are up to. I will also endeavor to post photos & video when possible.<br />
We are very excited about our <b>"Golden Oldie O.E"</b> and hope that friends & family may have the opportunity to visit us if they are in the area.<br />
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I would like to personally thank all those who have positively supported me over the past few years. I have sailed through some choppy waters (some of it due to my own churning) but you very special friends have still been there when it mattered. Never to be forgotten. Kia ora!<br />
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So please take the opportunity to link up and make comment. We will miss our family and friends- but in reality we are only a keyboard away.<br />
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<b>Aroha & keep smiling!</b><br />
Fletch<br />
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Here is a snippet of our experience in Tunisia so far....<br />
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The bygone year was certainly a revitalising one for me, personally. It started with a couple of quakes - earth-wise and inner-space wise. <br />
The inner-quakes were the ability to cope with the challenge of dealing with a loved one's battle against cancer. The inner strength shown by Lesley, in her will to overcome this dreaded demon, was inspiring. It made me realise if you live by your true desire you can beat the odds.<br />
The second inner quake was the ultimate realisation that if you find the true level of your aptitude and place your <a href="http://www.instituteforhabitsofmind.com/">values in making this work for you </a>then you will achieve the altitude you are aiming for.<br />
The answer to this riddle of thought is simply that I made a decision to be a classroom teacher and although I was confident I could achieve at this level, I did have self doubt before the year began. I was fortunate to have a <a href="http://www.ghs.school.nz/">flexible learning environment and creative people</a> around me but I now know where my true niche for the future lies for me. Many thanks to those who helped make this happen.<br />
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The year ahead brings on new exciting challenges.<br />
I am again fortunate where I have been given the opportunity to teach in a vibrant learning environment. Luke and the<a href="http://www.summerland.school.nz/Site/Home.ashx"> Summerland team</a> have some very special skills and an approach that I am sure will enhance my own quality as a learning coach.<br />
I used to smirk at the phrase<i> ' lifelong learner</i>' as a glib expresson for those who were indoctrinating the holy curriculum. But in reality I now see the real value it does have when you open your inner heart, soul and mind to what you really want to be.<br />
I guess for so long I set my sails on the direction of where one should sensibly head. I am glad that I am now taking the journey where I feared to tread beforehand because of commitments, money, career, ego etc etc etc.<br />
To feel you are really making a difference to others around you <b>and to yourself</b> is certainly the most valuable reward one can gain.<br />
I am not one for new year resolutions but my attitude and aptitude at the moment are certainly at the right pitch for me to sing at the highest altitude.<br />
<b>Top goals for 2012:</b><br />
<ul><li> Be the youngest & fittest 60 year old on the block</li>
<li>Bring back the music to my life</li>
<li>Be the best learning coach possible</li>
<li>Beat a couple of old crony mates at golf</li>
<li>Be a great friend, mentor and lover for those that matter (and in the context that is appropriate )</li>
<li>Skydive - the next best to knowing how Superman feels</li>
<li>Keep seeing the wonders of the world through my new found vision... (bit deep that one)</li>
<li> Be someone worth being around....(that is being true to thine-self Fletchy) </li>
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So, looking forward to 2012 and the adventures ahead. I have a feeling I will be living my dream!Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-85397856994026350422011-12-20T22:40:00.000-08:002011-12-21T09:29:03.181-08:00What a year !<b>Wow... that was a year that was</b>!<br />
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It started with me taking on a new lease in life - back to being a classroom teacher. I must admit I was anxious to start with but the understanding and skills came back to me as the year went on. Many thanks to my very kind friend John Petrie for giving me the opportunity to test the water. Anyway the year in the teaching frame has been a wonderful lease of life for me. It's like I discovered the fountain of youth again.<br />
However not all was bliss at the start of the year. Lesley and I were smacked in the heart when we found out she had a cancerous growth that was life threatening. My heart goes out to anyone who has been through this nightmare. I really had no idea what a challenge it was until it became personal. I guess I was a little blaze because certain elders in our life took this on and kept their cool and got on with life. I never imagined the scary feeling when it is your best loved one & mate who is in that place. Anyway we drew strength on that fact and my lovely Lesley was so brave & determined. What a magic lady!<br />
Anyway we beat that beast ! Thanks to all those who were there for Lesley when the going got tough.<br />
So then we got on with life again after the darkness and decided to grab some light.<br />
At that time the terrible earthquake hit Ch Ch. We wish we could have been there in person for our family down there but I guess you will understand we had our own quake ! <br />
We had a wonderful family holiday during the Easter Break. Those Grandchildren of ours are certainly very special in their individual ways. Absolutely magic ! Les and I had so much enjoyment being with them- the best tonic ever.<br />
So then we were into the rugby season. I am trying not to be biased and those that know me well will appreciate I am always harder on my kids than anyone else but Nick was a star for the Orewa First Fifteen. It is was a pity he was injured at a time when they needed him and the coaching game plan was shoddy. But no excuses he gave us great pleasure in his games and it will be a memory I personally will cherish.<br />
The next momentous occasion was the 50th wedding anniversary of Eunice & John. What can we say about these two wonderful people. In the relatively short time I have been part of the Tait dynasty I would like to say how fortunate I am to be involved in such a magic family. The reason why is Grandma & John. They rock to us all and to be there to celebrate their union of half a century was very special. Hell even our cricketers don't achieve that !<br />
The next big occasion was the Rugby World Cup. Now I must admit I was a bit lukewarm on this because I thought it would be a commercial overplay.<br />
Les & Nick convinced me to go to Auckland to enjoy the fanfare of Opening Night. I was reticent & guess what it was a disaster - because of my lack of love for crowds.<br />
However we went to a couple of games - thanks to Les & Nicks persistence and it was great. I guess the real cream on the pudding was when a blast from the past FB' me and said Fletch - I have a ticket to the final are you interested. Well ????? I couldn't really afford it but my very good friend Phil Olsen subsidized the cost and it was all on. A plus was that a certain cheeky Welsman by the name of Daniel Pugh Jones- both from a place I hold dearly to my heart- arrived as well. The story that unfolded was pure Hollywood. I was introduced to heaven ! Thanks guys lots of memories and affirmation that I made a difference in Wales during my time there. I shall return soon!<br />
Now here comes a real<b> wow!!</b> My lovely Lesley decided she would join a group of self masochistic women and run over the North Island mountains. Absolutely nuts!!<br />
But Les ran the 21 kms over The Mt Ruapahue - Tongariro ridges in 4hrs 35 mins. Quicker than I played 18 holes of golf. Now that puts it in perspective... simply amazing. <br />
So we move onto the final curtain. Ha ha!<br />
Ups for young Nick - our amazing son. He was accepted at the CPIT in Chrstchurch. Now those in Cantab know all about shakes but this has really has rocked us.<br />
Out of a group acceptance of 20 per year Nick cut the chase. He has had this dream for a long time and he achieved it. The thing is he made the opportunities happen - no luck or who your parents are. He did it himself. I admire him so much and this is the best Xmas present Les & I could have had. I would like to thank all those influential people who have helped make this happen. You know who you are and Kapai!!<br />
So now we move onto the festive season. It has been a challenging yet fruitful year for us. We should reflect on those living in Christchurch because you guys still have much to deal with and we admire your staying power so much. We love you and hope the future will bring better fortune.<br />
To our immediate clan - Merry Xmas and a wonderful New Year in store [ power of positive thinking guys!] <br />
Love you all...<br />
Dave, Lesley & Beazley.<br />
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I have some positive news!<br />
My tenure at <a href="http://www.ghs.school.nz/"><b>GHS</b></a> has sadly come to an end. Unfortunately my very good pal JP had nothing to offer for 2012. He needs to build the school for the future and I am sure he has the the best interests for GHS in mind- as he always does.<br />
Anyway .... so I was looking for somewhere where I could continue to enhance my street cred and skills at the frontline and be in a place where I really wanted to bounce out of bed to be at!<br />
Fate is a wonderful catalyst... it so happens an opportunity came up at this other simply amazing learning environment.. a great school visioned by wonderful minds and determination. Yep - I will have the privilege to be a teacher at <a href="http://www.summerland.school.nz/Site/Home.ashx">Summerlands Primary</a> next year, So looking forward to it!<br />
This is all in my plan to be the most knowledgeable, up to date, realistic educational leader around. This plan may work or not - cos I am on the<b> grey</b> side of the moon but I am prepared to learn from these wonderful young guns. GHS has given me a kick start already. Ka pai!<br />
I believe I was always a fairly good teacher who somehow became an administrator because nobody else was up to it. Unfortunately in my past that made you a Principal. It was never truly my forte'. I love being directly involved with kids and vibrant educators. Ok- so I have returned to my niche. Thing is it is certainly more demanding being a classroom teacher these days. They are our modern day heroes, if they do it well. Hell.... such a level to step up to. You know... I am buzzzzzzed by the challenge.<br />
It is so good to be positive about our profession.<br />
It is all about the kids! I will say no more ......<br />
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In the meantime ... wow - bring it on!Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-70842083461987069942011-07-25T00:09:00.000-07:002011-07-25T00:26:04.592-07:00Generation Y - a rewarding challenge?It has been some time since I have had the time to put fingers to keyboard on this blog.<br />
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I am certainly enjoying my shift in the personal challenge of being a frontline educator again. In fact my mindset about teaching has been given a realistic jolt.<br />
The reason being is that I perhaps underestimated the demand of <b>Generation Y.</b><br />
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The Millenium Generation or Gen Y ( those born 1980 - 2000) have never known a world without computers or the Internet. They are sometimes referred to as the digital natives. My youngest son is in this fold.<br />
They tend to be global in outlook and very accepting of differences. However they are also used to instant gratification, multitasking and can certainly present classroom challenges such as inattentiveness, social conflict and reliance on technical devices.<br />
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In my experience in returning to the<i> 'whiteboard jungle</i>' I have found teaching definitely needs to be highly interactive. The use of YouTube and web based resources is imperative. The attention span of the students today rarely exceeds 30 mins so your programme needs to be varied and purposeful.<br />
I have found the visual stimulation you provide is a<b> key</b> for rich discussion and critical thinking and learning engagement.<br />
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Group work can be highly successful with G-Y kids because they enjoy this aspect of learning socialisation. I believe too often many have been afflicted with the TV/ Computer as their way to link with others.<br />
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However I found that roles within the group need to be clearly defined or there can be chaos!<br />
A group leader and recoder needs to be identified and direction in possible causes and solutions needs to be offered. I have also found that varying group structures within the class from whole class, to small group, to peer learning provides invaluable variety.<br />
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For me, being the <i>'guide by the side' </i>is the catalyst for allowing students to learn by discovery. Allowing students to solve a dilemma or reflect on a possible solution, with your quiet overseeing from behind, has merit. So often I see students being given worksheets and organisers but with little input from the teacher ?<br />
Hang on isn't that why we are there in the first place??? That's another blog in he making......<br />
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I often present students with a vocabulary immersion before embarking on an inquiry or research activity. I find this provides the<i> " spark plug"</i> in preparing students thinking and also gives a platform for common speak.<br />
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The use of technology and <i>" cloud power"</i> allows students to reflect, discuss and share their thoughts in a way they know and feel is purposeful.<br />
Digital games certainly have their place in reinforcing and stimultaing the minds of our students of today. It is even more powerful if we relate it to the learning experiences we as teachers are focussing on. Just ask Robbie Deans & Wayne Smith why they promote their lads to engage in the PS digital arena of their game!<br />
Engaging the attentionof G-Y kids is an interesting challenge as they are used to having information from a wide range of resources.<br />
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Yep, teaching has changed dramatically in the past few years and as a reborn <i>guide on the side </i>this has indeed been a revelation. But bloody great fun! <br />
The most enlightening thing for me is that in these times as a teacher you are learning with the kids - it's a true learning partnership.<br />
How good can it get!Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-64550618672157163812011-05-18T01:49:00.000-07:002011-05-23T00:43:54.608-07:00The Magic Moments of the School CampOutdoor Education school camps are an awesome experience. I can't even count on my fingers & toes those I have been involved in but each one brings with it special memories. I have recently returned from a Year 6 camp with GHS and it was a real buzz. It is so rewarding being with the kids in an outdoor environment where we are challenged to take risks and trust one another. As an adult you learn about yourself and I am sure as a child the experiences add to their learning growth.<br />
It is interesting though that in this modern day environment, as a teacher, you take on so much responsibility. Kids today are very spontaneous and there are not the boundaries for most, in the open spaces, they are used to. You never know when they may make a choice that is inappropriate. If they do then you have to take the the flak.<br />
I hope though that the powers that be and the ridiculous PC that is creeping into society doesn't suffocate this wonderful opportunity for our kids.<br />
I feel already we are watering down the the real life challenges we should be giving our 'Kiwi kids' that in the past have made us a special nation. But that is another issue!<br />
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I applaud those many teachers and parents who are prepared to give their personal time and energy to make School Camps so special. <br />
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It was not only a fabulous opportunity to catch up with family (esp the Grand-kidlets) but also to take time for reflection and goal setting.<br />
I am really looking forward to getting back with the kids in Room 25 on Monday. This term will be one of plenty of variety and challenge. One special aspect I am particularly looking forward to is the cementing of the Habits of Mind learning philosphy I am striving to imbed in our learning culture. I have found this to be an extremely powerful platform in my teaching approach. It not only provides common purpose in our learning but also a language we can all relate to and share in our learning.<br />
The students have been very receptive to this learning approach and I have seen their effective learning habits strengthen. The Habits of Mind reflect the NZ curriculum key competencies with clarity and I have found I can infuse them comfortably into all learning areas.<br />
I will be experimenting further with the use of the Habits of Mind during this term with the objective of developing comprehensive guidelines for effective classroom practice so perhaps others may share in the gems I am discovering.<br />
Check out the Habits of Mind page on our <a href="http://www.ghs.school.nz/ClassSpace/3506/">class website. </a><br />
I would also like to share this special mini movie I made while on holiday with the G-kidlets. Hey! This is the real joy of living in this particular era!!<br />
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I have experienced a number of enlightening moments where it has resounded my belief that <b>actions do speak louder than the verbal option.</b><br />
It never ceases to amaze me how many of those in our society can influence the larger group by simply uttering the verbatim and then trusting the actions will happen. More often than not there is confusion, lack of direction and ultimately very little real achievement.<br />
I see that those whose light the fuse, throw the dynamite stick and then walk over to see the impact are the ones that truly make the difference.<br />
This is so true in all we do in our every day lives.<br />
Yes we can talk up our intentions and we can even pay the dues to be involved - but the real gem of success is taking the pain to get the gain! <i>(My recent gym sessions are proving this to be true) </i><br />
I have been so guilty of procrastination over the decades- and upon reflection shudder at the<b> <span style="font-size: large;">BS</span></b> I convinced myself of and that this was the best intention.<br />
If I look back deeply into when I really achieved then I would say that <span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: blue;">discipline, commitment, honesty with myself and belief in possibility of what could be</span></span>- were the key ingredients- <b>to making it happen.</b><br />
This is the same with kids as well.<br />
Just think.... if every kid at ten years old had these traits and carried them on until they were fifty... <span style="font-size: large;"><b><span style="color: red;">WOW !</span></b></span><br />
Yep they would be the real winners in life.<br />
Ok - so I am getting a bit deep but I felt I needed to put my fingers to keyboard so I could kick myself in the butt and remind myself of the values I have deep in my soul and draw upon them.<br />
Maybe by reminding myself of these learning values I will be a better person for others.<br />
Thats what really matters in life- please believe me !<br />
<b>Just take a lesson from another beached whale</b>. Ha ha!<br />
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But the secret is to take a breath, reflect and push for positive ( yep you educators out there let's wear that Yellow Hat)<br />
Your personal energy and positive attitude of mind is so important when the chips are down.<br />
If you believe in your ability to win- win and not be sidelined by the negatives ( oh we have so many black hat people in this world!) Why is this???<br />
Be positive and to a point even if overly optimistic- then you will come out with personal success and gratification.<br />
When I have<span style="font-size: large;"><b> not</b></span> lived by this rule of thumb - I have blown it!<br />
On the other hand when I have pushed to be positive, believed in myself and done the hard yards... guess what? The jackpot spins!<br />
You may say that is a gambler's attitude.<br />
Life is a gamble so the way we play the cards is how we win the game.<br />
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Back to the half way line.<br />
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We feel exhausted - maybe losing the point of what or where we are at. Step over the line and go for the goalpost. Guess what you will probably get to your goal and the celebration will be that more satisfying. Just ask any AB (All Black) - they live by this mark in the sand.<br />
No pressure guys - bring it on!<br />
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Being an old codger I am still coming to grips with is but can see the value!Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-5022806994394973072011-03-10T01:32:00.000-08:002011-03-10T01:39:26.906-08:00How good can it get?Had a great day with the kids in my class today. They were focussed in their learning and enthusiastic in their engagement and responses. Truthfully, I would say not every day is like this and I challenge myself - why this is the case?<br />
Some days I have been brilliantly planned (so I thought) -in my mind, and at times, in written format, but the day that eventuated was crap. Other days I have thrown aside the planning and gone with with the gut feeling- and it has been magic. But that is more pure luck than good judgement. <br />
In deep reflection I think it is about the<b> '<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karma">karma'</a></b>.<br />
If you feel connected on the day then all around you is connected. Good planning and resource helps this to happen to a certain extent but it is not guaranteed. This is true in aspects of coaching and learning leadership I guess? <br />
Then, there is the<b> " magic moment" </b>factor.<br />
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When something arises that you can hook into and make a learning gem that will stay with those involved for a very long time, perhaps forever.<br />
I have had ex students, team members and teachers I have been involved with point out to me -<br />
<b><i>" Fletch I remember when we did this.'.</i></b>... and this has been several decades later. A powerful upper for any learning coach.<br />
I ramble ..but the point I am trying to grasp is that learning cannot always been structured, planned or evolved from a plan or or objective. It certainly cannot be truely gauged from assessment or achievement outcome.<br />
Real life learning comes from believing in yourself, positive relationship experience and how we can adjust our thinking to meet the challenges ahead.<br />
This cannot be fully coached or taught - it comes from taking the risks, sharing ideas and making sure the magic moments are well imbedded in our souls.<br />
If you think I am on the wrong tangent - work this one out......<br />
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Yes we will make mis-takes - but therein lies the learning experience. <br />
I am fortunate to have the opportunity to attend the best Uni available - the <b>'University of Life</b>'. You never stop learning. <br />
Thing is you have to stay focussed on what the<b> best lessons are!</b><br />
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Being involved in others learning and caring for their well being is a real blessing for the heart and mind.<br />
<b>How good can it get?!</b>Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-39245093119084622102011-03-01T00:13:00.000-08:002011-03-01T00:13:20.461-08:00Eye on the ball?Lately I have had the opportunity to play golf regularly. It is a very interesting game - in fact like no other sport I have ever been involved in apart from surfing. Why?<br />
Because no matter what skill factor you may have you are always pitting yourself against the mind.<br />
It is also a sport in which you alone are responsible for the calls you make. So if you stuff up then you only have yourself to blame. <br />
I guess life is a bit like this. We can be part of a team or community but in the end your performance is really about you. It is so easy when in a team, community or nation we can blame others.<br />
I guess that's what the Ch Ch earthquake also retiterates. Yes bad stuff happens but how do we personally react to this? How we react I guess measures our quality as a performer.<br />
I have found with golf if I can blank out the issue of my world around me & focus on the task ahead. I score well.<br />
If I start thinking about other issues my game falls apart.<br />
Golf is also a game when you can be up and buzzing one hole but in despair the next. Life is like that. It's how we handle it that is the key.<br />
I listened to the Mayor of Ch Ch and our very astute PM today talking the positive. Ok when all around you is crap it is easy to bypass this as political ya ya . But in reality if we appraoch life in a positive way somehow the pathway does not seem to be so full of brambles.<br />
I guess where my thinking is coming from is that let's look on the bright side because when we do this the challenges always seem to be easier to cope with.<br />
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It was composed by my talented daughter Kelly who lives in Cheviot but was born & bred in Christchurch.<br />
Thank you Kelly for so elogantly voicing the thoughts we all have.<br />
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<i>The great plains that surround you have swallowed you in grief<br />
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There is no running from this pain, no temporary relief.<br />
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The scorn of mother nature, just like Garys’ poem said<br />
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Has left you lost and broken, left your love and kinsmen dead.<br />
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The Christian steeple fallen, the men no longer pray,<br />
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The one eyed red and blacks are lost, yet your courage makes you stay.<br />
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The history in bricks and mortar tumbled to the ground,<br />
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Your loved ones lie beneath them, as you beseech but any sound.<br />
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And here I sit and watch you, my home, the town I know,<br />
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How can I be near you, what should I do and how.<br />
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My helplessness consumes me I want to hold your hand<br />
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Cradle baby Jayden and rejoice with wine for Anne.<br />
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How can I console you the people of my youth,<br />
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I wish that I could house you all and hide you from the truth.<br />
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Put back the bricks and mortar, save you, set you free<br />
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Let the book I read in standard three lie back in History<br />
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But I am not immortal, I cannot turn back time<br />
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There is no magic running through, these weathered hands of mine<br />
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But let me tell you what I know, re-tell you what I see<br />
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I see the best and worst of it, compassion, and humanity<br />
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I see the people fighting for love for what is theirs<br />
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Kinsman bond together battling more than fears<br />
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Nations come to help you, to lend a helping hand<br />
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The world is at your doorstep, and with you they shall stand<br />
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So though it is of little light through the tunnel that you walk<br />
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And I have only words for you, of the pain I cannot talk<br />
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Please know that we are here for you, we’ll be there in the wake<br />
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The red and black within your hearts was never hers to take.</i><br />
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<b>By K.J Ensor,Cheviot,NZ</b><br />
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<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p--gqIP_v3g&feature=feedlik"><b style="color: #cc0000;">Worth a think about ?</b></a><br />
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I have made a few major mis-takes & consequent decsions during the past few months but somehow fate has shown these were the best ones for the future.<br />
I am so glad I was here for my close ones when the rubber hit the road.<br />
I am very fortunate to have a great whanau of friends and acquaintences who certainly showed their worth when it mattered.<br />
I will never forget you wonderful people ever.<br />
The past few days have also nailed me to my conviction in life in what really matters. <br />
To have a wonderful partner in future dreams and a family of character, real love and support is what really means success in life. I have the jackpot in this respect.<br />
So back to my decision to be a 'real' teacher once again - well I have certainly discovered my true worth again. Yes, some will say - oh where is this guy at ? [esp one Westie who calls it as he sees it!]<br />
But in reality it has been a born again experience. I love being with kids on a full on day basis and enjoying their bubbly enthusiasm to learn and grow. In turn this is has been the fountain of youth for me. I have regained true purpose and satisfaction in what I want to achieve. <br />
So hence the "smitzhy" video below ( I dedicate this to all the hard nuts who are not believers in the power of learnig through kids}<br />
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Kia Kaha & keep smiling for our fledglings in learning!Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-13485959846795982462011-02-02T23:17:00.000-08:002011-02-02T23:19:21.608-08:00On a new waveSo here it begins - a new phase in my life. I have made a deliberate decision to go back to my core values in life & aspirations. I am so excited about having the opportunity to be a real teacher again( Thnx JP u r the man!)<br />
We met as a team today - what an awesome bunch of educators. Now I guess I have to show the glow and prove I can teach the kids of today.<br />
I have learnt so much during the past few years - many thanks to the KFS team and my close colleagues at MBS.(esp Tash)<br />
I am determined to <b>" Be the difference"</b> @ GHS and hopefully motivate those I am responsible for to go on and do the same. <br />
It is so refreshing to be back with motivated educators who care about what is best for the kids.<br />
I had hoped in my time as a Principal to make a mark, in this respect. Unfortunately politics, professional egos and self interested adults got in the way.<br />
Now I can concentrate on where you can really have a positive influence.<br />
I leave you with this:<br />
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This is where I believe I can really "Be the difference.Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-80293977700737567062010-11-29T22:53:00.000-08:002010-11-30T15:44:54.883-08:00Back on trackIt's about time I got back up and noted some thoughts about life in general.<br />
The last few weeks have been torrid for me, to say the least.<br />
But all is on the bright side.<br />
They say you have to go through the bad times to make the most of the good. Well I am excited about the time ahead and intend making my own luck in getting the good out of it.<br />
I am getting back into something I really cherish - working with kids and making a positive difference for them.<br />
I have made a definite pledge to change my lifestyle and I am confident this in itself will have a more positive affect on family and friends.<br />
In all I am going to be the old true to myself Fletch again - fun, vitality and honesty.<br />
Thanks to those who have stood by me during this challenging year - your aroha will not be forgotten.<br />
I guess this movie clip hits the nail on the head where I am at in my next steps in life. <br />
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Our teachers are amazing in how they can be so creative, innovative and caring in their approach to the learning needs of our kids.<br />
When the end in mind is about the kids then the result is a wonderful learning environment. I take my cap off to these teachers for their dedication and down right hard work in providing the platform for the kids of today to learn so well.<br />
Teachers are in competition with TV, video games and the out and about activity that is so prevalent out there. Its a consumer world and so often it is targeted at the new generation.We may wonder why kids would want to do Maths and Reading? But they do!<br />
These teachers have stepped up to the plate and have provided very engaging learning activities so the students are able to learn at their personal optimum. It's wow factor!<br />
As an observer of the intensity teachers are subjected to in the five hours of full on student interaction in the school day you can only have admiration for their commitment. No wonder they need a break every 10 weeks. It would be easier being a taxi driver in the heart of the New York CBD?<br />
The point I am making is that although we strive for the best possible scenario in our schools, and for our own kids, it is totally reliant on those teachers that are prepared to commit their heart and soul to the profession. Thank heavens we have these wonderful people in front of our children.<br />
We will be coming up to some tough political times in the near future - lest we forget that our future is in the hands of our kids and the teachers that shape their learning attitude and aptitude. If that is done well then the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MKBX5LPS7cc">altitude is no problem.</a>Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-41357013478722790452010-08-24T06:25:00.000-07:002010-08-24T14:09:30.707-07:00Friends in need are true friendsI must admit I have been rather skeptical about blogging as a communication tool.I have often wondered if anybody actually reads the stuff you ramble on about.I myself do read others blogs as I find this expands my thinking and offers valuable reflection about certain issues but who would take time to read the mumbo jumbo I go on about at times?<br />
Well I have realised that the cyberworld out there is not as cold as it may seem.<br />
I let my true feelings leak out in my last post(a bit red of me) and low & behold several friends of the past have e-mailed/ skyped me to check up on my state of being. Wow - the power of online thinking has shown its value. These wonderful people have not only installed my faith in what matters when it comes to being an educator but also in my own belief that genuine believers in our quest for making a positive difference for kids is so important.A special thanks to those who did make contact for polishing my faith and being there when it really mattered. I feel much stronger for the encouraging words you relayed to me.<br />
I guess this experience has presented me with another valuable realisation. We hear & read so much how our kids are into the online environment (Face book) etc and we elders(so called digital immigrants) have at times questioned the value of this. Well if they can obtain the immediate moral support and thoughtfulness I got then it has to be plus. Who needs to experience total loneliness or despair if you have others on hand at a fingertip. Maybe we are underestimating the value of this environment for future generations? <br />
Anyway my faith in blogging has been boosted and I as a result also my faith in why I need to make sure we are strong in our resolve to bat for the kids. What we may lose today may well be a gain for them tomorrow! Thanks for the tonic my friends....<br />
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When you have lots of time to think about the issues that surround you one seems to have more clarity. I guess when you are running on the hoof the other things spring up and cloud the depth of your thoughts.<br />
An issue I am grappling with at the moment is dealing with change and how others react to this. Lately there has been a lot of change, not only in my personal life, but especially in my professional undertakings.<br />
It is very interesting, and sometimes perplexing, to see how people react to change.<br />
From the advent of the National Standards to the changing of expectations of people in contributing to the good will of the school community certain people react in strange ways.<br />
I see some who immediately throw up their hands in horror and seek devious ways to destroy those who are responsible for making the change.<br />
Others huddle in groups of common fear and mutter to each other hoping a ground swell will rise up and wash it all away.<br />
Thankfully those who are reflective and have the best interests of kids learning in-hand, take time to juggle the pros & cons and then come back with possible solutions.<br />
Its all about trust I guess.<br />
When people see their way of life or doing things fade away then it is understandable to think they would put up a fight and that the person who is instrumental in this change is the bad guy.But unfortunately I am seeing in society that the depth in reasoning doesn't go beyond that.It's an 'about me' agenda.<br />
We are going through an era of intense change - if we are not reflective,adaptable or willing to offer positive ideas for the good of all then we are making the fight that much more disagreeable. As it is said 'we can beg to disagree but no need to be disagreeable'<br />
It is great to see in the next generation that will soon be the adults of today they are prepared to look at change and make it work for them. So there is a light at the end of the tunnel.<br />
In the meantime I guess if one wants to keep the ball rolling for the future good of most then one has to expect the odd bounce smacking you in the head!<br />
I guess if you believe you are turning the wheel on the bus in the right direction for the good of most the journey will work out at the last stop. They may be nervous about the trip but if they trust the driver then it will be worthwhile. <br />
Now do I feel any better for writing this?<br />
Ok I guess - as long as I don't end up like the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nKvYBbzqQJw">Eskimo fishing?</a><br />
Of course I do - now what else can I go and think about....Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-40798802214461188132010-07-07T15:50:00.000-07:002010-07-07T16:20:51.558-07:00Being in 'The Zone'I have been reflecting of late about my own ability to help and inspire others. One thing I have felt about my self being is that I am certainly in a better place physically and <meta content="" name="Title"></meta> <meta content="" name="Keywords"></meta> <meta content="text/html; charset=utf-8" http-equiv="Content-Type"></meta> <meta content="Word.Document" name="ProgId"></meta> <meta content="Microsoft Word 2008" name="Generator"></meta> <meta content="Microsoft Word 2008" name="Originator"></meta> <link href="file://localhost/Users/davefletcher/Library/Caches/TemporaryItems/msoclip/0clip_filelist.xml" rel="File-List"></link> <style>
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="color: black;">To be of support to anyone else you need to be in a healthy place yourself. This is being in 'the zone'. Sportspeople and high achievers often refer to this term when they know they are performing at their best. But it doesn't take much to slip just out side this positive aura.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="color: black;">During the months before I had my knee reconstruction I was in considerable pain and as a result felt exhausted, demotivated and intolerant of trivia. I also felt it difficult to focus my mind on the important aspects of my career and personal life. I guess I was of little value to others at this time because I was so consumed with my own challenges.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="color: black;">Lately this has improved. I feel a greater peace and resilience within, and am finding the will to face the harder aspects of life with greater awareness and zest.</div><div class="MsoNormal" style="color: black;">To be able to keep in this zone for most of the time I guess is one of the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ec0n9v4nfBE&feature=related">secrets to effective leadership</a> [and being a good husband & father]. <br />
My goal for the next few months is to ensure I uplift my personal health and well being so I can more readily support others as well, in their life challenges. This will be a test of my self belief, as during the past year or so I have dug myself into some unruly habits and developed some cyncial perspectives. I need to kick out of these. </div><div class="MsoNormal" style="color: black;">I guess I need to get on the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZni2_j15PY&feature=related">right bus</a> now and look around for some positive, optimistic people to journey with. Herein lies the success of my venture into the future. Don't wish me luck as I am ready to make my own but if you have a helpful hint please feel free to push it my way. </div>Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-88040396103459972192010-07-06T21:29:00.000-07:002010-07-06T21:29:25.329-07:00Maybe there is a lesson here - we just need to find the right bus & mates to go with ?<object height="385" width="480"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/DX2ekG5kenM&hl=en_US&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/DX2ekG5kenM&hl=en_US&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-37986899537879386132010-06-14T18:14:00.000-07:002010-06-14T18:27:04.516-07:00Loser or WinnerI was discussing with a group of senior students about the desire to achieve and be a successful learner. It was interesting how some of them found reasons, almost excuses,why they could not reach their true potential.<br />I shared this little list below with them. I was given this many years ago by a notable rugby coach and academic, I had the pleasure to be associated with in my growing years [Carwyn James].Carwyn was a great thinker and an up front bloke when it came to looking at yourself. He used to say is the problem with you or is it with what you do. If either is the case then you can do something about it!<br />This is the list and it was framed around being a winner which if you have any inkling of who Carwyn was - he certainly knew what it was to achieve.<br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Losers procrastinate </span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Losers see a problem in every answer</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Losers make mistakes and live with them</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Losers spend time on trivia</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Losers grumble about the past</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);">Losers say.. but we’ve always done it this way</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">Winners make commitments</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">Winners see an answer in every problem</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">Winners make mistakes and learn by them</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">Winners make time for the important tasks</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">Winners look for opportunity in the future</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">Winners say... there must be a better way!<br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">So as you see - if you don't achieve then the problem may lie in your attitude.<br /><br /></span></span><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0); font-style: italic;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">'Attitude gives aptitude & altitude'</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"></span></span></div>Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-71141292515214249762010-06-07T15:24:00.000-07:002010-06-07T15:28:34.276-07:00Common sense response to Nat StdsI came across this video clip and it clearly sums up where my thinking is with the debate. As I have reiterated on several occasions lately we have to view the Nat Stds as part of the learning & teaching process - not as the end product. By having this approach we will surely keep focussed on what really matters - the purposeful learning for our kids.<br /><object width="640" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/7on8jMMKUA4&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/7on8jMMKUA4&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="640" height="385"></embed></object>Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-77104612414193238432010-06-06T19:53:00.000-07:002010-06-08T17:06:42.907-07:00Leadership as a servant?Leadership is a challenging but rewarding role. I am currently working with the student school leaders at<a href="http://mangawhaibeach.ultranet.school.nz/WebSpace/41/"> MBS (our Waveriders)</a>.<br />These 13 year old young adults have such wonderful potential and take on the leadership mantle with commendable thought and commitment.<br />We had a discussion the other day about the qualities of leadership and why it is important we do have leaders in our community.<br />We all agreed Leaders need courage. They should be thoughtful risk takers and have a strong belief in what they are striving to achieve. Most importantly though they must be prepared to serve the community. This was an interesting thought for them to process as they had the idea that the group, team or community should be at their beck and call.<br />I guess this is where many leaders do fall by the wayside. They forget that to truly lead you are the servant of your followers first and foremost.<br />We are sharing the book <a href="http://www.sirpeterblaketrust.org/">'Peter Blake- leader'</a><a href="http://www.sirpeterblaketrust.org/"> </a>and it is a driving point in this that Peter Blake was of this ilk.<br /><object height="385" width="480"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/vz_A1R8QJII&hl=en_US&fs=1&"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/vz_A1R8QJII&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" height="385" width="480"></embed></object><br />When we looked at some of our leaders within our national perspective some did not match up to this where as others it was glaringly obvious.<br />Incidentally we talked about Anne Tolley - she was way out of kilter. Yet John Key and Ritchie McCaw seemed to have nailed it (as the kids said)<br />I have taken this stance in my own Leadership during the past 5 years to be the servant of my team yet still show the ability to make the tough calls when need be.<br />It took an upheaval in my life to assist this shift. Before this I had fallen into the false belief because I had position I should be followed and obeyed.<br />Where did that come from?<br />I guess it could be easy to do when you have too much power and do not self reflect.<br />Anyway we are involved in the <a href="http://www.sirpeterblaketrust.org/support/red-socks-day/">Red Sock day</a> and are offering our Waverider service to the wider community. These students are learning the value of being a true leader and I am sure will prove their potential in the near future.<br />In the meantime Waverider 1 is certainly gaining a lot of inner satisfaction in being part of the team. check our the Waverider challenge at the Adventure Forest.<br /><object height="385" width="640"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/XVVxGYjfqLM&hl=en_US&fs=1&"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/XVVxGYjfqLM&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" height="385" width="640"></embed></object>Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-13232074087709693672010-05-30T15:36:00.000-07:002010-05-30T16:24:30.823-07:00Mis-takesI have had several experiences during the past week where people I have been involved with - young and vintage - have made errors in their life.<br />It is interesting how we view the mistakes made by others especially when it affects us personally.<br />An attitude we try to install at <a href="http://www.mangawhaibeach.school.nz/">MBS</a> is that these should be viewed as mis-takes. If you stuff up then be proactive in making amends and rectifying it. But most importantly learn by the experience and try not to repeat it.<br />Yes, sometimes it takes us several "takes' to get it right but at least we are accepting ownership of the problem and showing an awareness that if we don't learn by it then there may be a consequence.<br />So often, especially with adults, we do not hear that little word "sorry" and the recognition that I will take ownership of my actions. The blame factor sets in and it must be the fault of somebody else.<br />That could may well be.Outside or past influences can affect your judgement or response but in the end it is you who has to deal with that and take responsibility for how you react.<br />When kids learn this at an early age they tend to address life in a much more positive way and develop better as future citizens.<br />What is important is that we give others the chance to address the issue and make good of it.<br />In the adult world unfortunately we are very quick to seek & destroy rather than have empathy or compassion. No wonder our young adults and <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/sport/rugby/super-14/3753038/Crusaders-insiders-slam-Andy-Hadens-slur">high profile performers</a> of today end up taking alternative solutions to solving the problems of their world. They were not taught to take responsibility initially, find their own solution and see if they could make good.<br />Hopefully the next generation coming through will deal with such things more thoughtfully and with greater resolve.<br />From a personal viewpoint the experiences I have had have reminded me that it is the <span style="font-weight: bold;">'man in the mirror</span><span style="text-decoration: underline; font-weight: bold;"></span><span style="font-weight: bold;">'</span> who is really responsible for what happens in his journey through life.<br /><object height="385" width="480"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/SgtWIx2zLtk&hl=en_US&fs=1&"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/SgtWIx2zLtk&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" height="385" width="480"></embed></object>Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2881120338407881519.post-46909037678482880252010-05-26T00:55:00.000-07:002010-05-30T15:36:41.030-07:00Forgive an old fellas reflection ?It is interesting the expectations others have of you.<br />As a son, father, Principal or even as one in the vintage years.<br />I have spent most of my life striving to please the expectations of others. My own parents had high expectations despite the disability I had as a youngster. Upon honest reflection it probably did me no harm other than overshadow my own thoughts & apsirations of what I really wanted as a growing individual.In their ill founded intention they probably strengthened my resolve in taking on the challenges of life.<br />I was fortunate to be successful in my rugby playing days but because I had the skills & determination I ended up quite often being the captain of the team. This brought on new responsibility - you just couldn't play the game you really wanted to because you had to consider others - you had to be a role model. This can affect your approach to the game & to life.<br />As a young Principal (at 35 years old) this was also a challenge. I am not one of those who lives by the book or to the rules of others. I believe in my own intuitive principles of life ( founded on those of a good Christian upbringing). Yes some are debatable and some not so. But I believe being yourself is the most valuable asset you can have - as long as you do not harm anyone else.<br />As a son & father this again can be a challenge. I have a belief that love is not conditional and that your close ones should except you for who you are. If they try to change you then that it is time to move on and make your own way.<br />When you are heading towards the last years of your value in society I would like to think that you can do as you please and say what you like because you have been through the mire of life. Of course without causing undue harm to others.<br />I certainly listen & value my elders when they kick off on a tangent. Unfortunately we are losing this right of freedom in our society. Those that have the power, influence or the money think they know it all- pity because we will all will lose out in the end.<br />On a positive note I spent some time talking with a few of our Year 8 's ( 12 year olds) at <a href="http://www.mangawhaibeach.school.nz/">MBS</a> today. Wow - no problems there. They showed respect and understanding - they were willing to learn.<br />So old fella - maybe the world is changing with the next generation. If I have anything to do with it - it will!Fletchspeakhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16576924023350073507noreply@blogger.com0